Many conversations lack true interaction and understanding. In such conversations, one person is usually dominating the discussion, while the other person is passively listening without actively engaging. True communication requires a back-and-forth exchange of ideas and perspectives, where both parties actively listen and respond to each other.
Think about how often in conversations we think more about what we want to say, rather than listening while the other person is speaking.
The lack of genuine communication in many conversations can not only lead to misunderstandings but could also prevent connections from forming. To have a successful conversation, it is important to put aside one’s own agenda and actively listen to the other person’s perspective, allowing for a more equal and productive exchange of ideas.
“Most conversations are simply monologues delivered in the presence of a witness.”