We overestimate how good other people are, but underestimate how valuable we are. The funny thing is, we think we’re great when there are no stakes. We think we’re cool, or worthy of respect, or deserve that vacation, etc…
But when it comes to acting worthy of things that matter, we suddenly humble ourselves to a far greater degree. Asking for more money, taking on that scary project, or having the guts to step up and share what you’ve learned with others all are difficult.
So what would happen if we humbled ourselves in our personal life, but believed that we are more valuable in our professional life? (Hint: people will probably like you much more and you’ll make more money.)